Growing up my family never really did Lent. I remember my mom would give up chocolate or something sweet, but I never understood why. I honestly never thought about Lent until I married my husband. His family observes the Lent "season" and so I decided to start participating also. I would give up something I enjoyed and fast on the designated days. But honestly I didn't get much from it. If I gave up some type of food it became more about losing weight than anything. I think because I didn't fully understand it my hear wasn't (and how could it be) in the right place.
This year I decided to do a little digging for myself and this is what I came away with.
There is no Scriptural requirement for participating in Lent. So if it isn't something you do its okay. Although, if you don't, I feel like you could miss out on something wonderful!
Lent can be observed in a few different ways. Pick one and focus on it or do something from each. Whatever tickles your fancy. I didn't get the feeling that there are strict rules to follow.
Prayer
Prayer is something I struggle with. I find it so hard to just sit and be quiet. My mind feels like it is always going a mile a minute and I have a hard time staying focused. I am terrified of praying in front of others in fear of sounding stupid...which is pretty silly. In my reading to learn more about Lent a suggestion was made to focus on praying for a specific person each day of Lent. A family member, a friend, church family, missionaries and the people you don't get along with so well.
Serve
This is something I enjoy doing, but don't do nearly enough of! It could be something as little as writing a thank you letter to the person who made you coffee at Starbucks that day, making a meal for someone who is going through a hard time, secretly giving a gift card to someone or giving of your time to a shelter, soup kitchen, your church...ect. Seriously I feel the list could go on and on.
Reading the Bible
This is an area I have been working on getting better at. Reading my Bible daily. How can I grow in my relationship with Christ if I'm not taking in his Word? There are so many readings out there that are specifically directed towards Lent. I would encourage you to find one and give it shot and I will do the same!
Give something up
Lent could be a great time to cut off any bad habit that is getting int he way of walking with Christ. It's also a great time to deny one's self of a daily habit (big or small) that you enjoy. This might get annoying or hard to do, but this is daily reminder is to help us remember the hardship Christ encountered on our behalf.
Sorry for the long, wordy post and if you made it the whole way to the end kudos! I'm sure there is more to learn, but these things are what stuck out to me the most. I really want to push myself, learn and grow during these next couple of weeks. I'm hoping that by the end I will have picked up some new and improved habits!